Recently, Zack at The New Gay wrote a fantastic article about non-monogamy and feeling “closeted” about it when we’re out of the closet on other parts of our lives…
“Yet I usually treat my relationship arrangement as something dirty, something to be done under the cover of night and not spoken of later. It’s funny, because my boyfriend and I have talked endlessly on the subject — why we allow it, what rules are set up to keep us both comfortable in it, how to handle the little hitches that may pop up here and there — but in the company of others we just dismiss it as an indulgence or necessary vice.”
You can check out his article in its entirety here!